How dads can bond with their breastfed babies

Dads and Bonding

Four ways you can strengthen your bond

Alright dad, hats of too you for supporting your baby’s right to breastfeed. Breastfeeding is one of the most important things your wife/partner can do for your child, and your support is very important. But how can you bond with your baby when mom is taking over all feedings? Luckily, feeding your baby is not the only way to bond with them!

1). Respond to your baby’s cries.

Especially in the early months, a baby cries because it needs something. Crying is the only way your baby knows how to communicate. Babies don’t cry because they just want something, and you certainly won’t spoil them by picking them up and figuring out what is wrong. You will be building a bong with your baby when you respond to his or her cry though – your baby will learn to trust you. If baby is crying because he or she is hungry, you can transport to mom and stay near while baby is nursing.

2). Help with baby duties.

Even changing your baby’s diaper is a simple and easy way to bond with your child. Giving baths, holding, burping after feeding, changing clothes, rocking, playing with and singing to your baby are additional ways in which you can build a strong bond with your baby. When you are taking care of your baby, your child in turn learns to trust you and enjoy your company. You may not enjoy changing diapers, but your baby appreciates it! J

3). Play an active role as a parent

Take part in your baby’s doctor’s appointments and go out with your baby and wife/partner. Go for walks, wear your baby in a sling, cosleep, and experience your baby’s glowing face when he or she experiences new things. Just the simple act of being around your baby will help your bond strengthen.

4). Remember, baby is always listening

Avoid arguing, loud talking, swearing and negative attitudes around baby. Your child will pick up on them and it can scare them and effect them in negative ways. Even if your baby Is sleeping they can be effected. Keep the attitude in your home comforting, loving and upbeat, your child will thank you!